Long-term relationships evolve. Bodies change. Desires shift. What once felt new becomes familiar—and that’s not a bad thing. Familiarity is where trust lives. And when trust is strong, exploration gets deeper. … [Read more...] about Anal Foreplay For Couples: Your Guide To Deeper Intimacy And Lasting Connection
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What Is Prostate Milking? A How-To Guide
What is prostate milking? Prostate milking is another term for giving someone a prostate massage. The prostate produces prostatic fluid, which, when combined with the sperm resulting from coming, creates a white liquid resembling … [Read more...] about What Is Prostate Milking? A How-To Guide
Anal Sex After Care: How To Heal, Reduce Anal Soreness, And Protect Your Health
Anal sex after care is what you do once the fun is over. It’s the hour after. The next morning. Sometimes the next few days. It’s how you treat your body once penetration stops. The anus and rectum aren’t built like the … [Read more...] about Anal Sex After Care: How To Heal, Reduce Anal Soreness, And Protect Your Health
Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 2: Preparation, The Essentials, And Aftercare
In our previous article in this series, we introduced the topic of anal sex for older couples, talked about why some couples are exploring it as they age, and established that a healthy foundation for introducing anal sex to your … [Read more...] about Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 2: Preparation, The Essentials, And Aftercare
Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 1: Rediscovering Intimacy, Pleasure & Connection At Any Age
Sex doesn’t disappear with age. It evolves. For many gay men, anal sex has long been part of their sexual vocabulary. But as the body shifts over time, the way you engage with it may shift too. Erections may not be as … [Read more...] about Anal Sex For Older Couples, Part 1: Rediscovering Intimacy, Pleasure & Connection At Any Age
Anal Training: A Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex
When people think of bottoming for the first time, two words often come to mind: mess and pain. However, when you prepare for anal properly through anal training, all you’ll think of is confidence and pleasure. So how do you get … [Read more...] about Anal Training: A Beginner’s Guide To Anal Sex
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Room For Compromise In The Bedroom
Waiting For Marriage Q: My girlfriend just told me that she wants to wait until marriage to have sex. There’s just one issue: we’ve been together for five years and we used to regularly have sex. At some point, things in the … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Room For Compromise In The Bedroom
Can Anal Play Affect Your Pelvic Floor? What You Should Know
Curious about how your sex life connects to your pelvic floor? You’re not alone. As anal play becomes more mainstream, more people are asking smart questions about what it means for long-term pelvic health. The pelvic floor isn’t … [Read more...] about Can Anal Play Affect Your Pelvic Floor? What You Should Know
A Guide To The Male G-Spot (Or P-Spot)
The male G-spot, formally known as the prostate gland, is a powerful source of anal pleasure that has moved into the mainstream. Also called the “P-spot”, stimulating this area can lead to incredibly intense orgasms and unique … [Read more...] about A Guide To The Male G-Spot (Or P-Spot)
Does Anal Hurt? Tips to Avoid Pain
There is a common misconception that anal sex hurts. We can assure you: this isn’t true. If it does, it’s likely you’re doing something wrong (or you didn’t do enough to prepare). While some people use the words “discomfort” and … [Read more...] about Does Anal Hurt? Tips to Avoid Pain
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Pain After Sexual Play
Anal Play Q: I recently discovered something that surprised even me. My girlfriend started lightly touching my asshole while we were having sex and it made me absolutely insane. It felt so good. So yesterday, she gave me a … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Pain After Sexual Play
Anal Sex For Mature Men: A Comprehensive Guide To Health, Pleasure & Safety
We’ll be the first to tell you: anal sex gets better with age. With experience comes a clearer sense of your body, your desires, and what brings you pleasure. Whether you’re returning to anal sex after years away, exploring it for … [Read more...] about Anal Sex For Mature Men: A Comprehensive Guide To Health, Pleasure & Safety